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Friday, February 10, 2017

My Naked History by Naked Guy

Distributed on [thorngay], a Yahoo group from: naked guy: Contact him at: ihateclothes (at) I've written plenty of fictional stories on, but this an account of my true adventures involving public sex/nudity. 

I enjoy regular sex, but I really get off on being naked and or jacking off in risky places. I've done it in so many places that I can't remember all of them...but I'm going to try.

The earliest memories of getting excited from being naked came when I was young. I lived in a ten unit trailer park in a wooded, rural area. It was rare that I was ever home alone at all without my sister or parents around. One time, my mom actually let me stay home alone while she went to the grocery store. I was to be along for almost 30 minutes. My sister was away and my dad at work. 

I got the urge for some reason to take off my clothes and roam the house. I hadn't started jacking off or cumming yet, but it was still a thrill to walk around naked in these everyday places. Just sitting on the couch naked gave me a boner.

Soon after, I took to walking into the woods and stripping. There were no neighbors around for quite a distance, so no one could see me. I'd strip and leave my clothes in a pile. Then, I'd walk around naked for about half an hour. 

Shortly after I got into doing the naked woods thing, my family moved the mobile home to a more suburban trailer park far away. I didn't have the woods anymore, but I found a huge field full of high weeds that had a small dried u pond in the center. Once while exploring, I found a torn up Hustler magazine there. It had been rained on and tossed around, but most of it was in tact. I took it home and hid it in a secret place. By then, I had learned to jack off. In the magazine itself it had a hot pictorial where a man and woman were fucking in a restaurant. The people in the background appeared oblivious. It was fake but fodder for my fantasies. I kept returning to the place where I had found the porn. 

One day, it was close to sunset and I was in the big sunken spot where the pond used to be. I realized that once I was down in it, no one from the distance around could see me at all. Where water once sat, the ground looked like a crater the size of a couple of buses. The ground was hard and dry. There were trails where people rode bicycles and dirt bikes. Realizing I was out of view, I decided to strip naked and walked around. It felt so good with the warm air on my body. I sat down and jacked off a fast load. The very second that I had put my clothes on, a bicycle came down the hill into the pit and back out again. I was freaking out because I had nearly been caught. However, it was so thrilling that I went back several times again to repeat it. 

My mom started to work nights after she and my dad separated around 1981. That meant my teenage sister was supposed to be home watching me. It was summertime, so we didn't have to go to bed early, and we'd stay up late. However, at around 11pm, my sister would sneak over to her friend Maryann's place or they would go to some guy's house and flirt.

Since I'd discovered shooting a load the year or so before, I jacked off every chance I got. 

Once my sister split on her nightly sneaking out adventures, I'd get naked and start jacking off. I'd sometimes jack another one or two times again (ah, youth!). If I could sneak out over to the field with the pond, I'd do it. I mainly did that during the daytime close to dusk.

Back then I was very self conscious about my body and didn't even go shirtless anywhere. I never wore shorts. However, once I got to be alone in the field with the pond (which was very public but hard to see me from the road or anyplace once it got dark) each time, clothes came off. Even if it was just my shirt, taking my shirt off felt so taboo and was turn on.

Eventually, my mom couldn't afford to pay the house note anymore and we had to move into some apartments that were government run and rent was based on one's income. Luckily, between the apartments and a convenience store was a huge field. During the day, kids rode bicycles there up and down some small hills. It was full of weeds and bushes. That became my new place for walking around at night naked or semi-naked.

I had one close call there, though. Once night, just an hour after sundown, I was walking through the bushes coming back from the convenience store. I had taken my shirt off and pulled down my pants. In the moonlight and cool breeze, I was so turned on. I started stroking my cock. Then I had someone whistle at me! Up came the pants and I hauled ass back home. I was so terrified that whomever saw me knew me or knew my sister that I didn't walk that path again for many months.

Later on, my mom remarried and it was another year or two before we lived in a house again. It had a backyard that faced an open field behind a school. The field, however, was neatly mowed. The backyard was fenced in with a wood fence on two sides and the back side facing the school was a chain link fence. That allowed me privacy on two different sides.

After we moved there and my mom and step dad starting going dancing on Saturday nights, I started to get naked outside again. At first I'd just stroll the back yard naked at night. Later, I went out dressed and walked around through the whole field behind the school. I was able to see that from a distance, no one would ever see me naked in my backyard, it was so dark. The school, though, had plenty of lights all around it. I did find a few pockets in between the school building and some portable classrooms that were very dark and I was able to strip there and hang naked. It was so hot to see cars or people in the distance doing their thing while I sat naked outside in a public place stroking my dick.

We lived at that house throughout my high school years. The autumn after I graduated, we moved to the house that my parents live in. The backyard is fenced in with a tall wood fence on all three sides. Back then, we had an above-ground pool, too. When my parents would go out, of course I'd skinny dip in the pool. I'd walk around naked by the fence that has a street behind it. I'd enjoy walking naked next to it at night as cars would pass. I had already tested that out by checking out the other side of the fence and although lights from the car headlights might penetrate the fence, passersby would never outright see me. It still a thrill to lean naked against the wood slats as cars would come by wondering if they saw my lily white ass.

That type of scenario in the backyard was the typical routine for naked adventures in the backyard. Now and then, I'd go out to one of the cars parked on our driveway when my parents went out and open the windows. Once in the car, I'd strip and jack in the back seat. Again, it felt great to be naked with activity around but doing it secretly.

For a couple of years, I moved out and lived with my Dad. I was really busy working full time and going to college. I commuted to a school that as thirty miles away each day. During that time, there's wasn't much naked stuff going on. The only chance I had to do anything was at school. Sometimes, I'd strip naked in a bathroom stall and jack off in between classes.

In my final year of college, I moved out alone into my own apartment. That was the late 90's and the dawn of the internet. Once I got the internet, I started reading stories of exhibitionists that supposedly did all kinds of things naked like washing their car at a car wash, getting gas, running into a convenience store naked late at night, etc. I didn't believe them all until I later found sites with photos. Then I knew that I had to try similar things.

I started with small stuff like going to the carwash on rainy days or very early on Sundays. The one near me had business across from it and didn't face a main road. I'd get in my car and pretend to clean it out. I'd eventually get totally naked in the back of front seat and jack off. I didn't get out of the car naked...that would come later.

I started doing things late at night like at around 3am. Sometimes, I'd walk to the apartment mail boxes to get my mail in just a really baggy t-shirt and tennis shoes. Later I went as far as to leave my place like that and get in my car and go for a drive. Once on the road, off went the shirt. There's nothing like driving down the road, windows open, warm night air on your dick and balls...

After a few times doing that type of drive, I drove through a small rural area with no homes. It was Autumn and slightly chilly at night. I stopped on the side of the road and decided to walk a bit. I'd have plenty of warning if a car came. Once I stepped out onto the warm payment, it felt like a electrical current went through my feet to my dick. I started to jack off and came in seconds. At that point, I was hooked forever on jacking naked outside for sure.

From that point on until now, which is 13 years later, I've had dozens and dozens of public jacking experiences. I'd like to write more parts to this history based on themes (car washes, washeterias, etc) and particular hot scenes. There's so many I've forgotten, but writing about one reminds me of another. These are true stories and might be exciting to some of you, lame to others. 

Let me know if you want me to continue.

Saturday, February 4, 2017

How I Became a Boyhood Exhibitionist

A certain kind of CMNM experience

This experience was originally posted by Bill Williams to another group. It was subsequently distributed on the Thorngay Yahoo group mailiing list on January 27, 2008. It represents one boy's sexual development (into manhood) that is heavily centered about being exposed to other males, particularly in situations of helplessness (an important sub-theme for some CMNM enthusiasts NOTE: the photos were added (by this author: sunbunz - since Bill did not (and could NOT (LOL) provide his own).
[From thorngay Y! Group]
       There were enough [good] responses to my first email and the brief summation of some of the things I did to myself as a teen that I will now post my "Boy Scout Story"  [supposedly all true. ]

      I first realized I was an exhibitionist at a very early age, even tho I did not know what the word meant. I started out running out the back door and around a tree in the back yard in just my underpants. I don't know if it was the exhibitionist in me coming out, or if it just felt good running around like that, or just because it was "naughty". ?? Of course, I progressed to doing the same thing completely naked, and I really liked doing

that; something more daring?  I would sneak into my sister's room once in awhile, when nobody was home, and would put on some of her underpants and walk around the house that way. I even swiped a diaper off the neighbor's clothesline and would put that on, sometimes walking outside wearing just the diaper. Pretty soon tho, that became "old stuff", and I wanted to do something else, something more daring!

When I got a little older I was allowed to ride my bike away from my house, as long as I stayed within a mile or 2, even in the early evening.

There was a forest preserve about a mile from my house, that had a river running through it. During the day, there was hardly anyone in the park, just 1 or 2 people fishing sometimes. I would ride over there, go behind some bushes and take off my pants and underpants, and ride along the path wearing just a long T shirt. That was really neat, especially when I would meet someone on the path and have to really be careful not to stand up and show that I didn't have anything on under my T shirt. I had some really close calls, but that just made it more fun.

I progressed to riding my bike home like that, especially in the early evening. Sometimes, just as it was getting dark and just as a car was passing me, I would stand up, baring my butt just as the car passed me. That, too, soon got to be old stuff. Then I got the idea that it would be really neat if someone would see me totally naked. I guess that is when I progressed from being a little nudist to a full fledged exhibitionist. I would go near the end of the woods near the highway, take off all my clothes and walk along a path, jumping into the bushes if I though I heard someone coming. (Never saw anyone, tho). Then I would turn back, go right to the edge of the trees and when I saw a

bunch of cars coming, I would run across the clearing, stark naked, until I was sure they saw me, then back in to the woods, get my clothes, get dressed, and go home.

One day I saw a school bus with a bunch of kids going to camp or something, and when I was in the middle of the clearing, totally naked, I heard them shouting and laughing, and I knew a whole bus load of kids had seen me naked. I was so excited I could hardly sleep that night.That' s when it really started to get interesting. And I evolved into the "liking to be laughed at and humiliated" state of my life.

There was a Boy Scout Camp in the forest preserve, pretty far back in. One day, I was riding my bike along a path, (completely dressed for a change), when I ran into, (almost literally), a group of them hiking along the path. They were all a little older than me. An idea began forming in the back of my head. I went back the next day, and sure enough, the scouts came along at almost the same time. I scouted (no pun intended), along the path and found a clearing that had a bunch of tall trees, some with low hanging branches, about 6 feet off the ground. I went back the next day, almost 2
hours earlier. I had a 2 "choker" dog collars that were chains with rings at either end. You would slip the chain through one of the rings and form a loop that was supposed to go over the dog's head, and when he pulled on the leash too much, the chain would kinda choke him, making him slack off. Well, if you put on hand through the loop and then made another loop at the other end and put your other hand through, your hands were pretty effectively "chained" together. If you had the right size chain, it could be really difficult to get it off, especially if your hands were chained behind your back.

Anyhow, I got to the clearing and found a tree that had branches low enough that I could jump up, grab it and start climbing. I took all my clothes off. I put my socks in my shoes and tied them together, and threw them up into the tree. They caught on a branch about 12 feet up. I tied my jeans in a knot and wrapped them around a rock and then threw them as high as I could. They caught on a branch almost 20 feet up. Then I did the same with my T shirt. It wound up just above my shoes. 

My underpants were next. I wrapped them around a rock and threw them as high as I could. They caught on a branch just above my jeans.? I was now totally naked with all my clothes up in a tree. ?? I had given a lot of thought as to how I would chain myself, so as to give myself maximum "exposure".

If I just chained my hands behind my back, I could bend over or
kneel down and keep myself covered, and of course, that would not do. I wanted to be fully exposed when the scouts came by. So I decided I would chain myself to another tree. I also figured out that if I just wrapped my arms around the tree, only my bare bottom would be exposed. So I figured out that if I got on my hands and knees, backed up to the tree and fastened my ankles together around the tree, then leaned back and chained my wrists behind me and around the tree, I would be a kneeling position and fully exposed , with no hope of covering any part of me. So I backed up to the tree. When the first of them came into the clearing, he just stopped and stared at me. Then the others saw me and they all came over and just stood around looking at me. 

I told them some guys had caught me riding my bike and
pantsed me, and then threw all my clothes in the tree. All this time they just stood there and looked at me, most of them smiling and snickering. I also noticed that a couple of them were getting woodies, seeing me naked and chained like that. And being the only one there that was naked and chained to a tree with a bunch of older boys staring at me was getting me excited too, and my dick started to get hard too. They finally got me loose, and when I started to stand up I kinda stumbled from being chained up like that for so long, and 2 of them grabbed my arms to help hold me up.

Wow! Two older guys, fully clothed and me naked, holding me up. (one of them had his hand on my bottom) With 12 other guys looking at me. By this time I had a full hard on. Just couldn't help it. I was so excited. The best was yet to come. Nobody offered to get my clothes out of the tree, so that meant I was going to have to climb the tree, totally naked, with all 14 boys watching me. I walked over to the tree, and turned around so that I was facing them. I jumped up and tried to grab the lowest limb, but I couldn't reach it. After trying a couple times, with my dick flopping up and down with each try, two of them came over and held their hands cupped together so I could stand on them and they could boost me up and grab the limb.

I got a hold of it and hung there, fully stretched out soeverything was showing. Then I lifted my legs and hooked them over the limb, kinda spread out so that my asshole was in full view. I think I even tried to pucker it a little. After hanging like that a bit, I swung up and started climbing, making sure I stopped a little every time I was fully stretched out or spread out. I also had to scoot along some of the limbs, dragging my balls and bottom along the rough bark. I sure couldn't get dressed up in the tree, so  as I reached each article of clothing, I dropped them on the ground.

When everything was on the ground, (I was at the highest point
in the tree), I started to (slowly) work my way down, again stopping every so often and spreading my legs. I finally got down to the last limb and swung down, again holding on and hanging there as long as I could. When I dropped down, I "stumbled" and fell over backwards with my legs going up over my head. Then I got up and started getting dressed. And not one of them took his eyes off me until I finally pulled up my pants.

Wednesday, January 25, 2017

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Sunday, January 22, 2017

Roommate CMNM - How to get it started without risking offense or making him uncomfortable

[This topic was first brought up on the forum of Xtube's : CMNM Group by bostonguy22. He also posted the same question - see the first two paragraphs (under a different id) on the CMNM Forum]

Is there any way to go about setting up a CMNM (or, for that matter, just plain NM) scenario with guys you know--without freaking them out? I know a guy or two I might like to have such a scenario with (maybe with some touching or contact but not necessarily any sex), but I don't know how to actually go about approaching the issue in such a way that I don't inadvertently transgress any of their personal boundaries and/or make them uncomfortable.
Like, my roommate, for example. I'd like to be naked around him or with him, but I can't very well say "Hey, dude, can we hang out naked sometime?" That might really weird him out. But, if there were the potential for him to be open to it, it would be something I'd want to do. But, I don't know how to approach the issue at all. I don't how to approach it in a way that I could find out if he'd be open to it without simultaneously risking offending him or making him uncomfortable. Any thoughts?

It's partly going to be 'hard' (lol) for you to pull off (no pun) this scenario if you are not willing to be naked yourself. What I'm saying is -- if you have already been living with roommates and you've not had even any chance for them to see you naked (except just an accidental glimpse) then it probably means that 'nudity' is not (yet) a acceptable part of your 'household' lifestyle or relationship. In order for it to 'happen', you probably need something pretty radical or unusual to cause a change in the status quo. Examples might be: a new roommate (adding another) or exchanging one, or your moving out and finding different roommates- -more accepting or adventurous ones. If that's not an option or you do have an inkling he might be 'ready' and then you shouldn't give up. You can bring 'egg' him along by subtlely and sometimes more drastically forcing the issue and get your naked body seen and maybe his along with it.

By the way, nUdity / cLOthed situations don't have to happen with ONLY people you know -- there are many other kinds of situations so instead of beating a dead horse (lol).. perhaps you need to take up another tactic or seek a new kind of CNMN activity with a set of guys who are more amenable. However, there is a special nature to being naked/clothed with someone who you know, like and can get along with - after all that's one definition of a friend. I realize too that for some people, they 'need' that special bonding with someone, and the CMNM experience may not have much meaning or much excitement if the person is a total stranger. Yet, some guys can only be excited if the person is an unknown stranger. Even luckier when you get to have both. Nonetheless, you've got your objective in mind ... so how do you go about getting to that place where you're both comfortable or at least accepting (i.e. not outraged or embarrassed) by one of you being naked in front of the other?

Tactics for setting the right environment for CMNM and for setting up the sitution with a roommate:
If you going to be living with this roommate a while, there are some ways I can suggest that you can try to set-up CMNM. More than likely you'll just be to getting him and - more likely - yourself) to being nude at certain times when you're together at home. These initial times should be when you are both at ease and relaxed, and then these opportunities can later start get more frequent and perhaps more daring.

Try to come up with natural, unforced occasions when you can get naked in his presence or at least allow him to see you nude. Changing for bed or getting into the shower. In some case, there may be things you can do outside of the apartment/house where nudity would be expected - such as changing at the pool or in a locker room - so that you've seen in other naked where it is expected and inconsequential.
For things to move beyond just such occasional glimpes, you may have to 'set up' some of these
situations -- if it's something that's not been any part of your style of living.
- Such a 'set-up' might be forgetting something like a towel or wash cloth when you're in the shower, or running out of soap or shampoo and having to come out to get some (or one that you just bought but 'forget' to bring with you.
- Use your cellphone to ring (set up the alarm to ring) while you're in the tube and you rush out of the bathroom naked "not knowing he was there" story to grab your phone.

Let him catch you naked a few times innocently.
If you are now walking through the house/apartment nude, then it might seem strange to just start doing so.
So you first have to get him used to seeing you in various states of undress.
Start by coming out with no shirt or lounging around only in your boxes or athletic shorts. Later try to set up more 'naked' situations where he catches you naturally for longer than just a quick glimpse and with more visible exposure of your body and genitals. Be sure to intersperse brief innocent exposures with the longer ones - you don't want to raise anxiety by him beginning to think you are targeting him. Also, it would work best if he's also the naked one at times.
This might be his knocking on your bedroom door (to get something you borrowed or that you share - cordless phone, vacuum cleaner, etc) and then him seeing you naked when you casually answer (call him in ) or even open the door. If you have separate bedrooms and you're nude doing something like trying to untie some knotted shoelaces (and you may have the stereo/TV on) or headphones on (so you can't him knock), it appears totally nature and casual for you both.

Talking about sexuality and the male body

It may be helpful - not only for your friendship with your roommates - but also as a way to get everyone in the the living environment used to commenting on (or even discussions) of the human body (male and female), being male, and acknowledgement of sexual urges and needs. You don't have to describe in exquisite details your own sexual exploits all at once, but at least , you should be able to talk about the basic nature of human sexual needs. The topic surely comes up - -if not from you, then through the media.

References to sexual things often come up in movies and TV sitcoms, even news events, and from other friends, so you or your roommate can offer your own comments, opinions or experiences. "Boy, do I know what he's talking about there." It helps to make the other person feel comfortable knowing that you're willing to express yourself on sexual topics.
This assumes that you're already watching TV or videos together. If you're not even spending that much time together or conversing, it's not going to be so easy to share a nude/clothed lifestyle together.

Other ideas:
1) Start freeballing - that way you'll already be half naked. Your roommate will get used to seeing your cock, balls and butt if you undress where he can see.

2) If he's too uptight, he'll keep looking away or even ask you to dress in your own room. They will give you clues about how to proceed.
3) If this avoidance behavior persists, especially if he mentions it or draws some attention to it (like leaving the room), you could confront him about his being too uptight or too restrictive on your own personal freedom. 4) If he jokes about it, then you could also joke back with him.. 'Try it out, you might like it'. Just be upfront (and clever).. " seeing me naked doesn't bother you, does it?" How would he answer that but say 'No, not at all."
5) Start a new activity that involves him and you -- and the possibility of nudity - swimming for fitness, gym, fitness club, yoga, weekend sports, jogging, weekend trips or day time outing to the lake, beach, etc.
6) Always sleep in the nude so it won't be strange for you to be naked in and around your bedroom, also when you and he get to do some overnight trips or camping, etc.

7) Get a friend (or a bunch of them) who are nudists (or who like being naked or doing naked stuff) and whom you visit or go out with - taking your roommate along. These friends can invite you and your roomie to get naked. Whether he's gay or straight or maybe better when he's with a woman around, the 'pressure' of your friend's request might help him to break down the barriers so he'll actually get nude too. At least, you can accept your nudist friend's invitation - so you'll be naked in front of your roomie.
8) Have a party! Alcohol seems to be a great excuse for getting rid of clothes and inhibitions. Costume or themes parties can make it easier since invitees are already out of their regular attire anyway. Or plan special party games that require the removal of clothes - sometimes a necessity if things get wet.
9) Dare and double-dares will some work -- especially if the other person just needs a good challenge (or a safe excuse) for getting naked.

Below are some additional suggestions offered by other members of the CMNM Forum:
NakedDevil on Sun Nov 23, 2008 7:25 am
Well, with a roommate situation, it can be pretty easy. Just walk from the shower to your room naked. Or, even though you know your roommate is coming home, pretend you didn't and while your naked say something like, "oh sorry, was doing laundry and didn;t know you were coming home." Then gauge his reaction. But with others you know, it might be harder to set up an "innocent" situation. If you're looking to arrange something with strangers, is a good place to post.
grubernowski on Mon Dec 01, 2008 7:38 pm
Here's one approach I've used with a new roommate. First, tell them I like to sleep naked. Second, go to the fridge for a drink (or something else you take at bedtime). Go to the fridge naked while he's watching TV or doing some other passive activity--and say something along the way to him, like "Is that movie worth seeing?". After that you'll have some more opportunities to be naked in various situations and (in my experience) he'll eventually follow suit. Whether it leads to sex is more a matter of agreement between the two of you, though a compliment on his "equipment" might foster some action. by Grubernowski
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